1. What are some things you have learned over time about your spouse or friend that you did not know in the beginning?

2. How does selfishness usually reveal itself in your own life?

3. Selfishness doesn’t just affect you, it has side effects for others as well. How have the selfish moments in your life affected people who are close to you?

4. Is there anyone that you need to approach and ask for forgiveness for the ways you have acted selfishly in the past?

5. Share about a time someone was incredibly selfless for your benefit. How did it make you feel? How did your view of that person change as a result?

6. Read 1 Corinthians 6:19 as a group. What is your plan to fill up with Jesus every day?

7. Read Philippians 2:3-4. Who are specific people in your life that God wants you to
sacrifice for, like Jesus sacrificed himself for us?